Why is it that many people in the church do this? Why is it that their "sin" is the first thing we want to teach them about? Ever hear about showing the love that Jesus would have us show to them first and forever! Is it EVER my job to talk to people about their sin? Shouldn't we just show them love and pray that Jesus shows them "HIS" truth? Why do we try to convince people that they need to come to our own convictions? The bible says, "if they do not know that it is a sin to them, then for them it is not a sin." Some of you conservative Christians, would read this and think, "but I need to show them the "truth" so that they are AWARE of their sin!" WHAT!?!?! If they are ALREADY not sinning. LEAVE THEM ALONE!